Some argue that porn can help low-libido adults become more sexually active. Others claim it can also reduce anxiety and add spice and novelty to their sex lives with their partner. These ideas should be considered cautiously, as there is a wide range of porn, from striptease to hard, violent sex.
You can watch a lot of pornography online today, in photos and videos, just by clicking a few buttons. Pornography is seen as a social problem by many social conservatives. Is it possible to watch pornography as sexual entertainment?
Children in their childhood find porn easy: the average age at which they first encounter it is becoming younger. The danger is that children may lose the innocence of childhood by viewing arousing scenes of sexual activity.
The concern here is what each child learns to be erotic. It is impossible to erase it from your memory. Patterns of early sexual arousal may be ingrained in our memories for the rest of our lives. Are the sexual scenes children see influencing their perception of themselves in later roles? Is it a way for them to think they must conform and be considered cool socially?
The love ideology
The natural state of a male mind, especially regarding sexual desire, is called a ‘wired’ state. Porn is often viewed from a male perspective. The men are focused on one thing, while the women only have one goal. This makes men more likely to view women as sex objects. Men often portray women as willing, able, and ready to do anything a man wants. This is accepted more or less without question by teenage boys. This is because the male partner does not have to think about the sexual pleasures of their female partner. Porn can be a way for women to indulge in their sexual fantasies.
People who watch sex without being involved in it with their sexual partners are concerned that they may see sex as an expression of love but not as a natural pleasure. Swedish sex researchers Lofgren Martenson, L. and S. S.A. Mansson discovered that teenage girls embrace the “love ideology,” which believes that sex can be legitimately enjoyed. These adolescent girls rejected porn because it is sex without the emotional connection of a loving relationship.
Porn can “facilitate sexual pleasure,” but it can also make the person feel empty and disengaged. ” (clinical psychologist Leon F. Seltzer).
Emanuel Swedenborg is a spiritual philosopher who believes that a man’s spiritual growth can lead to a shift in his masculinity. When a man forms an exclusive relationship, he transforms his love for sex into the love of the woman. Mature love is concerned with the happiness of one’s partner and also with their pleasure. This increases the erotic satisfaction of both partners.
Swedenborg believes that even as adults, we still have innocence — the innocence of our childhood — and that once it is sullied, it can be detrimental to our spiritual health. People who watch porn are sexier than ever and need more extreme scenes to satisfy their sexual desires. They are becoming sex addicts. Is it possible for a sex addict to have a reduced ability to forge deeper relationships with another person?
A mature sexual relationship
Swedenborg wrote that a spiritual attitude is a desire for a one-to-one relationship. This includes not wanting to hurt your partner through sexual activity outside the partnership or fantasizing about such behavior.
His book Conjugial love states that the love and respect of a partner can be purified. Purification is achieved when people avoid what is impure. Although there was no widespread pornography in the 18th century, he stated that this impurity includes infidelity and lose sexual conduct, and indecent thoughts about others. The more “chaste” our thoughts and intentions, the more the Spirit will lead us to happiness in a long-lasting relationship. Impure sexual thoughts, in other words, are perversions to the chaste attitude towards conjugal love.
Conclusion
The internet has shown us that life is much more interesting than we thought. The real world is often ugly than we realize.
Ask the legislators to ensure that internet feeds do not contain porn unless adult users request it. Sign in, not out. One could argue that the internet is impossible to control. The government of Iceland hopes to take action. Maybe there is a way.
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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. Sail away from the safe harbor.